The dating world is heavily twisted in favor of women. Now don’t get me wrong. I’m not saying it’s their fault – it’s actually the fault of men for falling at their feet just to have sex in return. That has resulted in a lot of women thinking that they are better than they really are. And because of this, good guys like you are often left scrounging at the bottom of the dating pool. But you can change this by letting a girl chase you instead. Think it is impossible? It's only because you don't know the real tricks.
How to Make a Girl Chase You
Don’t ask stupid questions
A woman by default is going to assume you’re a douche, so it’s up to you to prove her wrong. And it begins by not asking her questions a douche would ask, like “Hey doll, so am I the man of your dreams or what?” Avoid stupid ass questions like these, please. They do not work.
Say no to cheesy pickup lines
They are an instant turn off. The chase will end even before it begins. Some examples of cheesy pickup lines are "You look like my mom." "Your lips look so lonely…Would they like to meet mine?" or "I have to show you the prettiest girl I've ever seen (then show phone with frontcam)."
Don't linger
Absence makes the heart grow fonder, which is why you don’t have to hang around her more than you have to. Avoid long phone conversations, long dates or even texting late into the night. Sure, once or twice is okay but don’t make it a habit. The less she has of you, the more she’ll want you. And that’s how to make a girl chase you!
Compliment her for the right reasons
You have to show her you value her for more than just her body. Stop complimenting her on her breasts, ass or narrow waist. Star complimenting her on her professional accomplishments, her nature, character, integrity or even the small cute things she does that nobody else notices. This shows her you accept her for who she is, and there’s no quicker way to make a girl chase you than to show her respect.
Challenge her
Sometimes you have to completely turn the table for things to work in your favor. So instead of you proving your worth to her, you make her prove her worth to you. And how do you do that? By asking simple questions like “How are you better or different from the other girls that I’ve dated?”
Leave an impact in her life
This works best if you two share at least one passion. So let’s say you both love animals. So you can go ahead and volunteer at an animal shelter. So not only do you come across as an extremely kind and considerate man, but you also very smartly get to spend more time with her without having to ask her out on a date.
And then…walk away
Literally, not figuratively. Sometimes, the best way to make her chase you is to deliberately decrease the times she sees you after you’ve forged a connection with her. That’s because now since she has stronger feelings for you, her tendency of chasing you become higher. And the more distance you maintain, the more likely she is to run after you. This is one of the smartest ways on how to make a girl chase you.
Listen when she talks
Women love men who actually take the time and energy out to listen to what they have to say, because most men don’t make that effort. Not only does it show that you’re a sensitive guy, but it also makes her want to get more chances to meet with you, simply because of the anticipation of receiving genuine attention from you.
Stay detail-oriented
When you listen to her, absorb all important details, both big and small. And from time to time, include them in your conversations with her. It’ll drive her crazy with an overload of emotions. More so if you use these little pieces of information to surprise her time and again by gifting her small items that hold a great emotional or sentimental value to her.
Hold your ground
It’s easy to give in when a woman shows interest in you. But you have to be strong and hold your ground. Maintain distance from her. Don’t tell her too much about yourself too soon. Don’t be too available. Sometimes even when you’re free, avoid responding to her texts instantly. When it comes to how to make a girl chase you, holding your ground becomes a very important rule.
Use the power of touch
Sometimes, the secret of driving her crazy lies in subtle tricks. Human interaction relies greatly on the sense of touch – the more comfortable two people are with each other, the more they will consciously and subconsciously touch each other. Now I don’t mean you go all creep on her and touch her in inappropriate places or at inappropriate times. No. But the next time she cracks a joke and you laugh, bend over and gently touch her shoulder or elbow. Or if you’re in an office setting, a firm handshake every once in a while is good enough.
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