She doesn’t really care about make-up and she can’t wear a saree to save her life – tomboys are not really the kind of girls a guy falls in love with on first sight. But once you get to know her and talk to her, you’ll find out that the absence of the so-called feminine charms does not really affect the awesomely cool person she is. A relationship with a tomboy is nothing like usual, and it comes with its own perks. Here are 9 of them you should know about.
Part 1
Low Maintenance
She’s not going to take an hour to get ready if you ask her to meet up. Forget the matching accessories and make-up, she’ll put on her jeans and her favorite tee and she’s good to go.
Mixes Well With Your Friends
Given a choice between girly girls and the opposite gender, tomboys are more comfortable hanging out with the latter. So when you introduce her to your friends, she will get along with them better than any of your other girlfriends ever did.
Doesn’t Drag You For Shopping
If there will be one thing common between you and your tomboy girl, it’s the equal loathing of going shopping. She knows exactly what she wants and does not take hours choosing THE perfect outfit. In and out in five minutes – that’s what shopping with her is like.
Surprisingly Sexy When She Decides To Dress Up
Just because she doesn’t usually make the extra effort to turn up the oomph factor does not mean that she cannot. On those rare occasions when she does decide to dress up, you are blown away by how beautiful your cute girlfriend actually is!
Doesn’t Have A Lot Of Drama
Another great thing about tomboyish girls is that they are repelled by drama, just like you guys. There are no big emotional reactions like you hear about in Taylor Swift songs. There’s no nagging, no attention-grabbing antics. Take it or leave it.
Can Kick Your Ass At Your Own Forte
Tomboys are usually pretty sporty – and are passionate about whatever they’re good at. So, in case your interests converge – be it volleyball or video games, you can bet she’s going to beat you at it. How is this a perk, you ask? It is, if you thrive on competition.
Amazingly Easy To Hang Out With
Since they are pretty chill to be around, you never have to make extra efforts when you go out on dates - like a successful romantic dinners or trying too hard to make an impression. Her down-to-earth attitude kind of takes the edge off it – and you can relax like you would with your friends.
No Mind Games Necessary
The best thing about a tomboy is that she is completely outspoken and honest about everything, sometimes a little too much. Hence the usual mind games that ensue between couples is missing in a relationship with her. If she likes something, she’ll tell you – and if she doesn’t, she’ll definitely tell you.
Friends Before Lovers, And After
What happens when you are dating a girl like that is that she does not only go on to be a great girlfriend – but a really good friend as well, someone who’ll call out on your bullshit and keep you grounded as you go on. Even if things don’t work out, you’ll find that staying friends with her would come as naturally to you as avoiding other ex-girlfriends.
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